Lately I’ve been hanging out with my ex again and he asked me out but I haven’t answered yet. He told me to take all the time I needed to make my decision. I like him too but I don’t know if it’s a good idea. We ended it the first time on good terms but it was my decision to break up. But now we want to get together again and I don't know if it’s a good idea. Please help me, should I get back with my ex?
Dear Indecisive Ex-Girlfriend,
If you really like him and he really likes you too, then I say to give it another shot. It never hurts to give a second chance, especially since you mentioned that it ended on good terms. Also, the fact that he said that ‘there wasn't any rush’ and ‘to take your time’ really shows that he’s in it for the long run. Definitely have a talk with him about why you’re having second thoughts on you two getting back together; make sure you are both on the same page and know what you are both comfortable with. At this point, you both know each other well enough to have a full conversation about what you both want to contribute to the relationship. You second-guessing yourself might be a sign that you just aren’t ready or you’re afraid of getting hurt or feeling like it won’t be the same. However, sometimes doing things the same isn’t always the best. Trying new things is scary, but you may be surprised by the outcome. Honestly, it’s up to you whether you’re comfortable with him, enough to be in a relationship or not. Like he said, take your time, don't just say yes because he wants to and you feel pressured to say yes. Remember that a relationship goes both ways. That’s the best advice I can offer. I wish you the best and if you need anything else please contact us through our Mayfair Windjammer Instagram.